Showing posts with label friend. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friend. Show all posts

Monday, September 19, 2011

Don’t worry, you will get through!!


Patience is the key to happiness. But it is easier said than done. I read somewhere that you may not be able to fight your own fears but you can fight someone else’s fears. It means that you may not be able to solve your own problems , encourage your own self ,reduce your anxiety and stress but you can do that for a friend, a colleague etc.

How often we find our friends repeatedly encouraging us before an exam or an interview – “Don’t worry, you will get through!” and then this statement is repeated again and again till you finally get through. During all the testing times you are engrossed in a fight between the negative voice and the positive voice. No matter how hard you try to suppress negativity ,human mind is such that it will focus more on – “why you will fail ? “ rather than –“why you will be selected?” and the frenzy begins.

I thank all the friends who have fought my fears and disappointments for me. Who have kept all my worries at bay by repeatedly saying – Sahiba !! Tension mat le … Ho jayega!!!


:) :) :)

Saturday, June 25, 2011

Whiling away time...



whiling away time...
whiling away life...
You need not make sense out of everything ..
drop that burden... drop it...
You need not make it meaningful,useful...
You need not use every single moment judiciously ...
You need not spend every single penny wisely ..
You need need not be a selfless person..
You need need not be a helping friend always...
You need not be the best performer...
you need not be a dedicated lover...
You need not be always available...
You need not be polite...

You can live for yourself...
You can act
You can lie
You can hurt consciously
you can be mean
you can fake
You can cry
you can hide
you can ignore
you can be boring
you can speak loudly
you can brag
You can crib
You can be strange
You can be stupid
You can change


I understand you... i do ..and I will let you be...
I am with you in your journey of meaninglessness...
You are free from the burden of making sense...
You are free from the burden of being yourself...
You can be someone else...
You can be any damn thing in the world ...
Original or copied...
I will try to accept you with open heart...

Whiling away time...
whiling away life..
trust me u can while away things...everyone does.. its peaceful in a way...

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Nothing Special !!




Passing through the same road

Doing the same chores

Thought less

Numbness

Clueless

Life was passing by me

It was just another day

The same more or less

In the bathroom

Suddenly I saw a flicker of sunlight

Dancing on my naked waist

I smiled

Nothing special...


I cooked breakfast

Kitchen window gave way

To a subtle rush of air

And my long locks got entangled

I blushed

Nothing special

An early morning message from him

Warm fuzzy feeling inside

Nothing special...



As I was putting kohl

My eyes looked bigger

They sparkled

I thought

Nothing Special...


Gathered my stuff

Arranged my bed

And there lies my diary

I caressed it like my child

Wished it goodbye

It was hard to leave a part of you behind

But Nothing special…

I was getting late

But the lift was waiting right there

Lucky me, I thought

Time saved

Nothing special…

Reached office

Bumped into him

Then again saw him near the water cooler

He looked at me and kept looking

I didn’t know where to look

Funny…Embarrassing

Nothing special…

My boss praised me

He thought I was a very intelligent girl

I acted modest

Inside I was as happy as a child

Nothing special…


Returned

Roommates were discussing dinner

The most debatable topic

So menial yet so important

Place decided

Then No one was hungry

Stupid we were

Never sure

Nothing special…


The hot whether

Room was like hell

We slept on rooftop

Slept, chatted, laughed till wee hours

Nothing special…

Another morning

Puffy eyes

Aching back

It’s hot, humid

Another day


I will pass through the same road

Do the same chores

Thought less

Numbness

Clueless

Life will pass by me

It will be just another day

The same more or less

Nothing special...